I am going through almost the same as everyone of you. My husband doesn't have a job and we are expecting a baby and I am working full time supporting both of us. But I think in a partnership you have to help each other to succeed, a man needs his wifes support, there are certain things we women know that men just don't and we need to encourage our men to find jobs, help them succeed. With encouraging words and acts. Man are just like children. Anyways, after realizing that he can't find a job and barely looks for one, probably because he is discouraged, I bought him a photo and video camera so he can shoot pictures and videos for weddings and other events and make money on his own time and it's been working very nicely so far, he doesn't make as much as I am making but he makes as much to pay half the bills and do household work at the same time. It's not the best solution, but it's a good solution until he finds a real job.
