i like to practice being this way often. i think we all know a kind and selfless person is more pleasent to be around than a mean person who will look at every flaw you have and value themselves over everything else in existance. i for 1 love to give to and help others when possible. even if i dislike them to an insane degree. i'm nice because i value the relationships i have with some important people i have in my life. i hope to see more people try being this way more often. i agree with chauncey it takes sacrifice to be a man.