This is far from the truth. If marriage is not used responsibally, then it is stupid and useless. Since there is so much unfaithfulness, that is why there is so much adultery and heartache. The reason why there is unfaithfulness is because people choose partners for the wrong reasons. If they choose them for their physical characteristics or their popularity, you are really taking a gamble. If you get attracted to fleshly things, then you will be let down. If people got attracted to goodness and spiritual things, so much pain could be avoided because those people wouldn't go with someone who was going to be unfaithful to them. There are a whole lot of reasons why marriage doesn't work such as a lack of communication, partners not expressing their love enough, boring partners who never want to take their partner out anywhere, selfishness, husbands and wives not fulfilling their marital roles, a lack of respect and another problem is that marriage isn't taken seriously. Now days, it is OK to divorce someone because you wern't compatible. Well who is! Incompatibility is no excuse for divorce because there is a very fine line between divorce and adultery. If marriage was used properly, it is a wonderful and fulfilling experience.