It is important to have respect for each ones feelings.However you can only make yourself happy. to expect anyone to always make it their job to make you happy, there will end up being more than one unhappy person.it could mean anyone though I have a relative who expects everyone to bend over backwards to make her happy and do things her way, she makes life miserable for all involved. It would be hard on the other hand to be with someone who did not give a hoot for anyone but themselves.