Obsurd. While sometimes I wish my wife would just do what shes told, what kind of a person would she really be if she did. I think its more about knowing your partners needs, strengths and weaknesses. Be strong for them where they cannot be and let them be when they are in control. Never do something you dont want to do just to appease them. A man should let his woman have her way in her home, and a woman should let her man be the man of the house. I know a lot of you will understand what I mean.