First of all, a good man will NEVER refer to any woman as "his" (if you can't fathom the reasons for not "gettin' any", this might be a good place to start). Secondly, vocal anger is largely situational and should be meted out under the appropriate circumstances. If someone (the sex of that someone doesn't matter one whit) is giving you the tongue-lashing of a lifetime (publicly or privately) over something of little consequence, it's always nice to be able to "take the high road" of reasoned discourse, but (and let's face reality) there's a fine line between "positional assertion" and "doormat". Comes a time when ANYONE has to stand up for themselves (and possibly perform a gut-check reevaluation of power imbalances in a relationship), and if a raised voice can level the teeter-totter, the more sanity can be restored to the playground (the costs can be high at times, but if you weren't aware of your credit limit, you shouldn't have been out shopping anyways). Just one more reason why people aren't meant to be together long-term.
