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Should Abortion Remain Legal?

reviewed by edt4

edt4
04/20/2008

Should Abortion Remain Legal? 3

  I have always been a bit ambivalent on this issue; maybe it has something to do with being adopted. My birth-mother was 16 when she became pregnant with me-- abortions weren't  easily available or safe at the time, and it wasn't something she considered in any event. She wanted to marry my birth-father, who was a year older than her, and keep me, but was prevented from doing so by her father, who insisted I be put up for adoption. Catholics have always been consistent when it comes to abortion-- my paternal grandmother, who was Catholic, told my birth-mother way back then, "We'll support you all the way in any way we can, just so long as you're not considering abortion." Conservative Protestants have taken up the issue of abortion as a political cudgel only in the last 30 or so years. I find the fanatical intensity and shrillness of these people disconcerting-- why not direct some of that passion to helping all the very-much-alive-and-viable children in this country and this world who lead miserable lives, often having little to eat, substandard housing, no adequate medical care, inadequate schooling, etc.? Easier to profess concern for some abstract notion of the cell mass in a woman's vagina. Then again, looking at it from the other side, I sometimes think it's a bit disingenuous to declare a line of demarcation for the beginning of life. Six months? Three? Five weeks? In a certain sense, life does begin when the sperm and the egg connect, although I also think its absurd to look upon a fetus as a viable human being (comedian Bill Hicks once said, "You're not a viable human being until your name appears in my phone book."). While I can't come down firmly on either side of the fence, I do think abortion must remain legal, and ultimately I have to side with those who are pro-Choice. Much of the anti-abortion sentiment comes from old men who feel they should have the authority to tell young women who don't feel or think as they do what they must do with their bodies. Too, the same people who are against abortion are also against sex eduction. The reality is we have far too many children in the world who are unwanted, abused, tortured, starved, exploited, murdered, cast aside, etc.. Our prisons and our Death Rows (another glaring contradiction; some of the most adamant anti-abortionists are very much pro-capital punishment) are filled with those unwanted children grown to adulthood. Until these anti-abortion zealots are as equally concerned with all living people as they are with the matter in a woman's womb, I just can't buy their arguments or support their position.

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zuchinibut commented 590 days ago.
Interesting take on the abortion debate, but I think your thoughts are flawed. Part of your reasoning for not declaring yourself anti-abortion is that "others" who have that view are "anti-sex ed" and "pro death penalty." I think a person's views on abortion shouldn't be dictated by other issues. You have a problem with "Conservative Protestants" who have this view, and it seems like you don't want to be associated with them and their other views. Your dislike of their views and the manner in which they express them is understandable, but that alone shouldn't be a factor in dictating your personal belief on abortion.

edt4 commented 589 days ago.
Well, as I think I indicated, I'm ambivalent on the issue. I brought up sex ed because you can't tell children having children that they're unable to have abortions if you're not going to teach them about sex and how to prevent pregnancies and disease. The "abstinence alternative" is a crock, as anyone who has ever been a teen knows. I'm not against the idea of abstinence per se, but it's unrealistic, as most of the arguments by the anti-abortion people are. Teenagers always have and always will have sex. The anti-abortionists present a rosy picture of adoption, but let me tell you, that leaves scars as well for all involved. I brought up the death penalty issue because their position is inconsistent: you can't be "pro-life" if you advocate the termination of it by the state, as most of them do-- it defies logic. The life of an adult has less value than that of a fetus? I have no great love for "conservative Catholics" but abortion is the political hot potato it is because of the conservative Protestants, who have been able during the past 30 years to exert a disproportionate influence on the political process, to the detriment of this country, in my opinion. We supposedly live in a pluralistic society but they want America to be run as a theocracy. I'll concede your point that my views on this topic may be flawed, but it's a complex issue and I certainly don't feel myself qualified to come down with a doctrinaire certainty on either side. If I have to choose a position, it's the position of the pro-choice people, but I'll admit I'm not entirely comfortable with that position. To put it in more personal terms, if my girlfriend told me she was going to have an abortion, I wouldn't be comfortable with it. Ultimately, it's her body and of necessity the final decision has to be hers, but it would bother me for a long time, I think. Then again, I have a friend and when he was a teenager, he impregnated his girlfriend and she got an abortion. So far as I know, he sleeps very well at night.
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