money helps you get by better but i hope it does not define a person. I just turned 50 and we had to start all over again becuase of job loss.{ my husband's place of work closed after he was there for 23 years} we are getting by with less and it has been very tough. and life changing. so I would really hope that we are not judged by having or not. as Randy man said i would hope seeing the children we have raised turning into good feet on the ground citizens. and trying to be decent people.
