the thought is meant well at the time. then time goes on we get busy and now years may have passed. and to be truthful some people never pick up the phone or make that first move. so if you REALLY want to see that person you are the one who always has to call, they may be willing to hook up but will never be the one to call first. sometimes others were meant to be part of a life for a small time then drift out of your life.what can you do? can't make them. just move on.