I was 8 1/2 months prego and I found my boyfriend having phone sex with a girl from his work! We planned this baby together. hE SAYS i DID NOT SHOW HIM ENOUGH ATTENTION and I did not appreciate him???? He says he did not cheat on me because he did nothing with her physically! i AM Trying to forgive him because his father just died and it was very devastating for all of us but especially him. He has never even yelled at me. He has been perfect up to this point. But there were over 5,000 text messages in 11 days. They would talk 24 hours a day. Have phone sex will I was in our bedroom sleeping! I need some help with this problem!!!!!!!!!