We had been tryin' to be friendly but does not work with others. So is rudeness the option people like?...well, let's do this!...Yes indeed, to be friendly reduce other things. If a man is friendly, or trying' to be a friend to you, don't turn his offer into hate, or take an advantage of his coolness into something unpleasant; my friend then you are a fool. Make friends and welcome them...than to make them adversaries, and you are in an irreversible furnace!..