Somewhat, but it my belief that women and men can get a better idea of how their opposite number will treat them by observing how they treat waiters and waitresses.
Inevitably, in a longstanding relationship, a certain degree of "taking for granted" occurs. That can be gentle or rude.
Watch how your potential future partner treats people in the service industries, who are taken for granted from the get go. That's a pretty good indicator of how they'll treat you one day.
I wish I'd come up with this observation before I got involved with a couple of women in my past life.
