| REVIEWER | RATING & REVIEW |
 | AleashaC (0)
09/17/2008 | I can't have a guy who is clingy.
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 | SomePsycho (0)
09/14/2008 | Gotta have an independent girl. If she's too clingy or needy, excess drama is the result. If she has her own friends and can do her own things, that frees me up to have my fun- and it makes our time together all the sweeter for our time apart.
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 | CnValdez (0)
09/10/2008 | I love an independent man, because then I know he will take care of himself if I wanted to work or go to school and he won't be so controlling.
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 | ibmadathim (0)
07/19/2008 | A man for me would need to be some what independent ie, fix food for himself, pick up after himself, take on chores, fix the car/plumbing/honey do's and who can & will say honey lets do this or that and he's not just a lump on the couch 364 days a yr.
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 | irishgit (150)
06/25/2008 | Absolutely critical.
I want to be with a person, not gain an appendage.
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 | numbah16tdhaha (156)
06/08/2008 | I need a woman who can do her own thing and let me do mine sometimes. Being smothered blows...
UPDATE: Hey, if some people like being co-dependent, that's their business. Eventualy it will be a therapist's business too, but that's neither here nor there...
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 | lmorovan (16)
06/08/2008 | Independence is OK while you have no commitments, but once you become engaged or married, independence becomes interdependence. A person who clings to his/her independence while in a relationship shows a selfish nature and a doubtful willingness to engage in a relationship where the union must prevail above individual needs.
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 | SuKingsANDKnights300 (17)
06/08/2008 | I don't want to be controlled by a woman who is nagging....than for her to listen to me, and follows my rules.
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| MU6CL1 (0)
06/08/2008 | I like someone who takes care of themselves but I am also a motherly type so being a little needy is ok.
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 | ILoveSCY102605 (1)
05/01/2006 | I don't want to have to support someone who has no money, because that leaves us both, BARELY getting by.
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 | Bird808 (55)
03/07/2006 | For me personally as a woman theres nothing more healthy and productive in a relationship than to see a man who can stand on his own and allows me to do the same. I'm very independent and the last thing I would want any man to do is be asking me for money because he can't be bothered to work or not be able to drive as he couldn't be bothered to take his driving test or still be living at home with his Mum when he has the choice to leave home and do things for himself. I would expect a man to be on the same wave-length as myself when it comes to being self-sufficent and for me I like someone who can do things for himself without depending on others. I find men who are too dependent extremely lazy and before you know it you'll be playing both husband and wife to someone like this. For some people having someone depend on you is a turn on, for me NO THANKS.
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 | Ih8rateitall (5)
03/07/2006 | A mixed bag. Independent chicks tend to give me too much sass. I'm the man and I'll bring home the bacon and you will cook it. That's the way it is, that's the way it should be, and that's the way It'll always be in my household.
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 | kingguiness (13)
01/19/2006 |
Just the right amount.
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 | Djahuti (57)
03/02/2005 | Tricky question.I think we should all be there for each other and help our partners through tough times-but there is such a thing as being too needy...
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| resisobilus (0)
06/07/2003 | Unless of course you WANT someone to need you desperately.
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 | AndrewScott (73)
05/15/2003 | The healthiest relationships are those in which people are neither too dependent or independent of each other. Some independence is fine, but not when that means your partner is emotionally unavailable for you or closeness needs are badly out of sync.
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| getback (0)
05/08/2003 | be strong and yourself that is what is attractive
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 | Teaseress (15)
01/06/2003 | Lets face it, there's nothing worse than having someone who 'needs' you 24 7. Obviously its nice spending time together, but things get very boring and you have less to talk about as you are pending all your time with that other person. When I was going out with my fiance, his friends would invite us out, but because we lived and worked together, I used to make him go out with them without me so he could have a lads night out, he used to protest and sulk saying he wanted me to go out as well, but thankfully he always gave in. Everybody needs personal space.
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 | Snoopy (5)
12/11/2001 | I can't stand it when a guy feels the need to be with me 24/7/365. It's freaky, IMHO. I know you love me, Honey, but get a life!
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| kyes (0)
10/02/2001 | this has to be the most important for me. that's probably why i'm always single. from watching my friends, they've defined a real relationship as dropping all your friends and interests to be with this whiney,crybaby,selfish guy 24-7. i mean one of my girlfriends just loves the attention she gets from this one guy, who's not too bright and needs her to support him financially and hates when she wants to hang out with her friends. i mean if that's what true love is then i think i'll pass.
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| hilde vee maxwell (0)
08/18/2001 | how annoynign is it for someone to never be able to do anythign wear anything etc. with out someoen telling them that its cool. i think that it is more important for the person to think fo rthemselves than anythign else well that and be paitent with other who migh tnto be as indpendant
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 | kellyfish (0)
08/06/2001 | I totally agree with this. After all, absense does make the heart grow fonder.
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 | afterglow70 (1)
07/25/2001 | I think that independence is important, not only in our personal lives but in our careers as well. I would date a man that does have a job or who wants to just hang out constantly or someone that does nothing but sleep at my house all the time. I think Wiggum is right. You have to have space in order to have your sanity. Don't get me wrong, I love to be kissy kissy all the time, but when I need space, he always knows and respects that.
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 | Wiggum (17)
07/20/2001 | Speaking as someone who needs a lot of time to himself, I have to say this is a really, really important one. When certain types of people are in a relationship, they seem to need to spend every moment together. I can do that for about five days, then I break down. The ideal girlfriend loves spending time with you, but has her own life/friends/interests and doesn't need you to be with her all the time.
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