SpamAssassin Pro 3

I'm having some issues with false positives with SpamAssasin - meaning email that is not spam is getting caught in my spam filter. I also can't figure out how to forward email from my spam filter to my inbox. The good thing about Spam Assasin is that you don't get caught in spam filter bounce back cycle that you do with the white list / black list services like Spam Arrest. For example, If I am using Spam Arrest, and someone I don't know is using another white list based system - if they send my an email, it will get bounced back to them asking for confirmation. Unfortunately, their Spam Filter will catch this as spam, and 1) I will never get the email; 2) the person trying to send me email will never know that I didn't get the email. Spam is a real pain in the ass...