Elizabeth Smart
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I know I shouldn't be surpised by the number of people attacking the victim of this violent crime and her family; after all there are always cruel, judgmental people who blame the victims, and have been for years. However, that fact does not justify that behavior. When a kidnapped victim, by the grace of God, makes it home alive they are punished by people who just want to spread gossip and lies, and people who think they should be told every detail of what happened to the victim just because they are curious.
In the case of Elizabeth Smart there is overwhelming evidence proving she was kidnapped by Brian Mitchell and his psychotic wife Wanda. That she spent the first few months of captivity chained, like a dog, to a tree with a wire cable, lived in a well hidden dirt hut, and was kept quite by a man with a knife saying he would kill her and all of her family if she said a word. This man who had been able to break into her house in the night, and forced her to leave with at knife point; a man who soon after tried to kidnap her cousin. Elizabeth was stripped of everything that would link her to her life, home, and family. She was forced to keep a diary denouncing anything to do with her old life and family, and only writing what she was told to write talking about her "new life" with him. He even showed her newspaper articles talking about how the search for her was going nowhere, and that there was no leads; later it talked about how many were sure she was dead. He used these articles was emotional abuse, and telling her being married to him and the kidnapping was God's will, otherwise, he said, God would have allowed her to be found. This was just one of many was he used to brainwash her. Also, if she was a typical teenager who was running away from home, and planned to stay gone for so long, don't you think she would have taken a whole lot more than just the PJ's she was wearing? Most teenage girls would have had to have some clothes, make-up, hair care products, and some money...she took nothing.
As for those who think Ed Smart talking to the press and writing a book about what had happened is "fishy" I ask you to think of this. Their daughter is being accused of running away because she was pregnant, or was tired of all the family rules and just wanted to be free to have some fun, and other discusting comments, I can understand a parent wanting to defend their child who had just gone through nine months of hell on earth. They probably were hoping it could shut some people up. They also knew how lucky they are to have their daughter back, many people who have had a child taken from them are not that lucky. Maybe by coming out and saying just that and talking about it might help raise even more awarness on the hundreds of families waiting and praying to find out about their child. I know I am going against what many have been saying, but I personally can't find any fault in either of those ideas.
Another thing people have either forgotten about, or didn't even know in the first place, is that it is a felony to file a false police report. If the family made it look like a kidnapping for some reason, or if Elizabeth had just run away and then made up the kidnapping story and falsely accussed two people for it they would be the one's sitting in jail, not Brian and Wanda. And if it was all made up why would Brian Mitchell be telling everyone Elizabeth was his second wife, that they had married at the campsite with no minister to perform the wedding, and no one else there besides Wanda. Why would he have told everyone, they later came into contact with, that Elizabeth was his daughter instead of second wife or something like that. None of that help his current situation.
Elizabeth was carefully (and throughly) examined by a doctor who reported she was not, nor had she ever been, pregnant. So to those who say she was you are basically calling that doctor a liar. Why would any doctor risk losing his/her license to practice by lying to the police and medical review board by saying what he/she did regarding this issue.
As for mormons and how they are all so bad, this isn't true either. I grew up in a town with a large mormon population. When my sister and I were young our best friends lived across the street from us and were quite active memebers of the mormon church. We spent most of our free time "hanging out" and playing with us, and our mom's were very good friends as well. We had lots of "sleep-overs" at each other's homes, and spent all of our free time with them. There was never one weird thing that happened. Their mom knew our family was every active in our christian church, and we knew how they felt about their mormon faith so there was never a time when we said anything bad about the other's religion (except for one time when one of the younger kids...she was six at the time and I was eight...told me their religion was the only true one; when her mom heard about that she grounded her daughter for two weeks for saying that). My high school class was about one-third mormon, and they were some of the kindness, caring kids in the entire school. They never teased anyone, or did anything to try to hurt anyone. They were great friends to everyone, even the friendless. When I first started high school my parents wanted to go back to grad school so my dad could get his PhD in science and my mom could get her master of science degree in business education; so the two years we were gone we rented out our home to a mormon family (we just put an ad in the paper looking for anyone who would want to rent it, we didn't plan to have a mormon family stay there, that's just how it worked out). There were several months when that family was having a hard time coming up with the rent, those months the church paid the rent. That is just what they do for the members of their church members. The church did something very nice and VERY helpful for us once, even though we have never been and will never be a part of their church. A few years back my grandfather died. He had been such a big member of the community who helped so many people for nothing in fees or in return, he just did them to do the right thing God would want him to do. So we knew there were going to be a lot of people who would be coming to his service, and we knew our church could never fit enough people into it; the leaders of the mormon church knew they had the only place that would be big enough to fit all four hundred people (in a town that has only 1200 people in it), so they let us use there church for free. These are the terrible people you all are talking about. There are bad people who are mormons, but there are bad people who come from every church...it's the people, not the religion.
In my opinion, one of this countries biggest problems are the people who enjoy bring other people down. People who make decisions abou