She's a devil in bed, you say?

Only if they're planning on taking my husband to their beds.

It depends on why they think he is the devil lol

Well, your family will eventually come around.

Try to find out if they have a point or not.

I'm not gonna dump you, we just have to reconsile your differences.

Couldn't care less. And who above 25 or so does?

oh well...

u'r family and friends know u the best....i would listen to thier advice yet make my own decision....

Life goes on, right...not everyone will like who you're going out with, and no matter what, it's your life and your opinion of your life that matters...

they are not the final word...but a huge part of my life...so...ya gotta get along...

ohwell lol

If Im happy, and she is a good person, I dont give a shit what my friends or family think. They will have to deal with it, or else lol.

Well that can be tuff. They would have too give me very good reason and have something too back up what they are saying. Then if bad enough, maybe

I would have to depend on what they're reasons are!!!!!

if she is hitting on fam/friends.......yes

i honestly don't know

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As long as I like her, thats all that matters

Funny Im actually in that situation and not even considering dumping, but i could see it happening in some situations

I could care less who disaproves if it's real.

It doesn't matter what they think, if I have feelings for someone then those feelings are what matters.

it kinda matters

i love the guy wot can i say

Love is blind.

They are mostly right, I've learnt the hard way.

once again don't care

I wouldn't see them much if my family hated him lol

they don't have to live with the person ur dating

I can always show my family that in a relationship you have your differences and it is my life to live the way i want to live it.

Talk it out and show them that hes not and if he is dump him

I say like her or dont bother me.

IT DEPENDZ; FAMILY/FRIENDZ DON'T KNOW WHUT'Z BEST 4 ME (AT LEAST NOT ALL THA TIME)

It's my love life, let me figure out if I still want to be with him or not

oh yummy thats more of a reason to do it I say

well they can get over it

i should make myself happy first and everyone should be happy cos im happy

They probably disapprove for a reason.

It all depends.

my family not so much...but my friends would have to have a reason not to like him...i trust them

Depends on why they don't like them

One time I was in a position where my current wife had left me but we were not divorced. I started dating my soon to be next wife. The current wife warned me that the wife to be didn't like me dipping all that grizz any more than she, the soon to be ex-wife did. I should have listened.

cheating

I have dated people my friends and family disapproved of. What kills me is that they are usually right. It is worth listening.

It may be worth a listen-sometimes family and friends see something you're missing in the early stages of romance-but ultimately NOBODY picks my girlfriend for me.Especially if it's based on some kind of prejudice.

It would depend on WHY they disapprove, I guess. If they can PROVE (with 100% accuracy) that he is cheating on me-and that is why they disapprove-then I'll take it into consideration, obviously. If it is something like religious, racial, political differences or something even more ridiculous; then no. As long as the person is treating me well, then nothing my family could say would change my mind.

This is a tough one. If my family and close friends disapprove there may be something to it for me to consider...after all they only want to see me happy.

AScott, you make some good points -that you have to assess people's motivations before you take their advice to heart. Moreover, disapproval isn't a good reason to dump somebody on its own, but, in my experience, it tends to be a harbinger of future failure. Your friends and family know you and, depending on who you're talking about, can usually be objective. Basically, they know when you're dating a loser. Plus, I've dated girls that my friends didn't like hanging out with and that becomes a major point of contention among everyone involved - makes for some very awkward moments.

Not up to the friends or the family to decide who I date. That is a silly way to dump someone.

When two single adults find true love for each other, such happiness should be allowed to subsist without others making things irrationally difficult. Some family/friends may err in withholding support due to any of the following: (1) An overprotective streak (2) Fear of losing your relationship (3) Inability to let others be happier than themself (4) Not understanding differences in personal tastes. That being said, there is always a chance that a family member or friend may be better able to see a serious red flag than a person who may be blinded by their need to be loved. Be honest with yourself to whether your partner is truly capable of the unconditional love and support you desire. If reasonably confident that you have the real deal, then you can't allow others to run your life for you.