Unless I ask for it during our foreplay.

I don't deal well with drama queens, and I really don't deal well at all with violent drama queens. Time to get a cab.

HECK NO!

Yea. I dont need a chick thats messed up in the head/anger issues. I met a HOT girl like that once. Not towards me per-say, but she could be violent (about several other things, and told me violents stories). Sucks, cause she was really sexy, just had serious issues lol.

No one deserves this.and if  your date does this once chances are they will do it again and again,get out while you can!

NEVER EVER put up with domestic violence, this includes emotional as well as physical. If the person has a violent episode while you are dating, RUN FAR FAR AWAY. People have fallen for the apologies and the gifts only to wind up in a marriage that could only have been contrived in Hell. If your relationship sucks while you are dating, DO NOT GET MARRIED. IT WILL NOT GET BETTER IT WILL GET WORSE. If you are prone to violent people, get counseling or something but get out of the vicious cycle that could end with your funeral. Think this is crap? Talk to people who have had to change their identities or move from state to state to get away from an abuser or batterer. Call the national domestic violence hotline and get free info - educate yourself and do not buy the lie.

Does this really even need an explanation? Also remember that you should be wary of violent/aggressive behavior toward anything, not just directed toward you. Some people only become violent toward partners after a period, but if you notice other violent behavior, don't stick around to see if it will be directed towards you later!

Run now while you still can!

Viloent behavior is a very very good reason to dump a date. I would not hesitate.

Ladies,NEVER take this from a beau.Guys,a woman that gets violent has issues you probably do NOT want to deal with.

get away from them now. They will NOT change no matter how sorry they say they are or how much they promise it will not happen again. no one deserves to worry about when date is going off the deep end and may smack you at anytime. No excuse they have should make you think you should put up with this behavior.

First; why is this BELOW "Lies Frequently"? *written 3/10* Anyway, this is something that I'd end a relationship for without a single regret. I've dealt with this in other areas of my life and finally cleared it all away and have no intention of allowing it back into my life.

Violence cannot and will not be tolerated!!! Period

The idea of dating a violent girl kind of cracks me up. I'm not against the idea. Going the other way, where a guy is beating up on a girl, the girl has no excuse not to dump, dump, dump. I have limited patience for girls who put up with violent boyfriends/husbands, and I have never really understood the phenomenon where girls "attract" violent guys. Can someone please explain this to me?

An excellent reason for dumping someone, and the faster the better. I find it fascinating that the majority of the posts on this topic seem to be assuming it would be the guy hitting the girl. Violent behaviour is not limited to males, women can be violent to. In any case, two people who claim to be interested in each other (Or in love, depending on which stage they are at) should be able to find other methods of resolving differences than resorting to violence. And nobody should EVER just accept violent behaviour as a normal state of being. If your partner becomes violent towards you, get the hell out!!!

dump them right away! its not worth the risk and they are unpleasant to be around in the long run anyway.

Coming from a guy, a real man doesn't hit a woman....ever! Probably the #1 reason for dumping someone.

Ladies, you should recognize this kind of behavior long before he hits you. There will be signs long before it gets to that point. By the time a man hits a woman she has let too much go by already. Any woman even displaying real anger or controlling me on a date (this is assuming you are dating, not in the middle of a relationship, Lord knows I give the wife a lot more room here..)will find herself needing cab fair real damn quick!

ummmmmm forget getting them help. Dump them and get a restraining order. If they keep coming around you may have to get violent or creative with them depending on your personality. That usually gets the point across

Definitely dump them and get them help.

Not only dump, but report your date to the police if they do try to use you as punching bag.

It's sad how many people don't have the self-esteem to turn away from those who show all the warning signs of being seriously abusive. Some self-destructive individuals even find themselves gravitating toward abusive types. They might be falling back on the kind of victimhood they experienced in their past. Or pehaps they can't let go of the false sense that they can change somebody's nature. People also accept physical and emotional degradation out of the insecurity of living alone. Support groups, sympathetic friends, or places of affiliation can help someone break the cycle.

I lauged out loud. Is this reasons to dump a date or reasons to call the police? Does someone have a fascinating bad-date story to tell here?

when you partner becomes violent or even if you feel like they might get there ..leave

Minkydude, you surprise me, lol! Seriously, though I would run not walk from someone who was violent. I would not put up with anyone beating on me.

if any body is beating on me it over faster than if she lied to me.

Could be a major turn-on in the right setting.

Truly inexcusable. I was raised under the Golden Rule- that a man should never physically harm a woman. Moreover, I was taught that verbal abuse is equally wrong. My father on several occasions hit my mother, and fortunately, she fought back. However, many women choose to stay with a man who hits them because they believe that nobody else would want them. It is truly saddening that some women would rather be in a violent relationship than in no relationship at all. There are many fish in the sea, ladies, and trust me, you will find one that is loving and caring. It is truly saddening when fathers (or stepfathers) hit their children. I was never the victim of physical abuse, but my older brother was. Our stepfather hit my brother on several occassions, and finally, my mom smartened up and kicked him to the curb. In my opinion, if, as a man, you hit a woman or a child, you are no man at all.

Violent behavior is simply inexcusable (unless its in self-defense or for the protection of others). Why some girls go for those moronic 'bad boys' and not us good guys, I'll never know. Also, profanity falls under violence, because words can hurt too, regardless of what some people say. So, if he or she cusses frequently and/or is physically violent, dump 'em, cold turkey!

Ladies--if a man ever, ever hits you, don't even bother staying...They're worth nothing and more than likely if they do it once they'll do it again.

Chances are, if he (or she--this does happen the other way around, too) hits you once, there's not much stopping them from doing it again.