well theres nothing like a date to the gym.

Come on, this had to be pretty obvious before you got to the dating stage. If it didn't bug you then, it shouldn't bug you now.

Personally, I don't date women significantly heavier than me. And surprisingly enough, I can usually notice this prior to asking them out.

Call me shallow, but I haven't dated anyone who outweighs me. Matter of fact, I've never gone above about 140 for a date.

You can't dump what you can't lift.

Is a turn off. I have been meeting some pretty chubby girls lately. Course they look alot thinner in their profile pic lmao

Now, what if the person is heavy set but in the process of losing weight, like myself? I've lost 13 lbs. and still have a ways to go but I should have lost 40 lbs. by the end of 2006.

Are we talking about turning them down before the date or dumping them during the date? I'm 6'1 and weight 215 lbs. and there's no way I'd date someone heavier than me.

If you pick a big un then you should not have this excuse to dump her. If you start dating her and she blows up, then thats another thing. Sounds bad but Im being realistic.

I'm a pretty big guy(6'2, 210lbs). There aren't to many girls I have to worry about. Especially my wife(5'0, 115lbs).

If, when I accepted a date, I didn't notice my date weighed 300 lbs and I only weigh 115, my weight wouldn't be the only thing that's light. My brainpower might be, too!

This is a horrible reason to dump a guy. In fact, I prefer dating guys bigger than me.