Overweight is ok, just get out and venture outside of the house more often.

It's the instantance on not wearing under shirts, is what irks me.

If you love your man, you LOVE all of him! I do think however that if they like you to look good & keep in shape, they should put for the effort as well to do the same.

Don't mind it on others - actually, theirs used to enhance mine own self-esteem. But one is beginning to sprout on me so am losing what little edge on vanity vs. others I used to have.

I can understand why some women may not like this, but I know women who are really obsessive about that. They absolutely hate this and even if a man puts on a bit of weight, they tell him he has a big stomach. I think GoneAway has an excellent attitude and I wish more women would think like that.

I love bellies. This one doesn't bother me one bit. More to love, as Gone said.

It doesn't make me shallow, does it, if I cringe when a man takes off his shirt and his belly wobbles around? I mean, get off the couch and do a few crunches during the commercials. It'll work wonders.

When a woman gets fat, it seems to spread evenly around her body (okay, maybe a tad more in the legs and hips). But when a man gets fat, it collects almost exclusively in his massive belly. And what a joy that is to look at during Fourth of July barbecues.

Beer is awsome but you got to work it off so you dont get the gut.

Legitimate gripe. I don't have one which is lucky considering how much of the stuff I drink. Exercise is good, people.

Sure, some guys get them and it's unattractive.. but some women get saggy butts and those saddlebag thighs so... I'd say it comes out even in the end.

Well, if other 'guys' would just stop drinking boneheaded alcholic beverages, it wouldn't be a problem, now, would it?

No, this doesn't annoy me--it's the ones who insist on being shirtless all the time WHILE having a beer gut that may be offensive. But, I can admit that I'm not perfect, either, so why would I expect guys to be perfect?

There is nothing wrong with a larger man whatsoever. In fact, many of them can be quite sexy. However, it can be really unhealthy, and they should do something about it.