She is a good woman but is not really good at intimate communication. Becasue of her insecurities she is the type that just wants it to happen without really discussing or relishing it. I have tried to have a conversation about what turns her on and what pleases her but she avoids it because in her mind, that means that she will ultimately have to hear about what I like and want that she will not be able to give me. She is not a big fan of her own body even though she is definitely an attractive woman. Like many women she is not happy with her chest, not about size but about their 'position' to put it kindly. I have been married for almost 7 years now and have never seen my wife totally naked! She has a shirt or a bra on when we make love! I know her so well, as I should. If any one has comments or advice on this subject, I would welcome it.