Helps keep the relationship exciting, and new.

50/50 - I don't mind someone who is spontaneous, but it depends on what kinds of things they do for the rush of it all. Some of the types of people scare me with the things they'll do at the drop of a hat.

A man that can come up with something to do for fun in a short period of time is definitely a turn-on for me. There aren't a lot of people with spontaneity anymore because they are too busy with being worried about what the other person will think.

Spontaneity = something new every day!

Mmmm, I love sponteneity so I will have to go with a yes on this as well.

Much more interesting than the terminally timid and cautious.

The extremes of this can sometimes skirt the boundaries of "crazy," however.

Deffinately wouldn't hurt! I like unique and a little unpredictable people in a good kind of way. It's like opening the box of chocolate - you never know what you gonna get.

I like it. Suprises (within reason) are always good and I'm the kinda of person who likes to just pick up and go somewhere for a bit.

some sponsors make good friends too. lol

It works as long as the person doesn't use spontaneity as an excuse for childish behavior or avoiding real responsibility. . .

A HUGE turn on for me. But really it depends on the person and the lifestyle their leading. For someone else spotaneity isn't even an option its simply a "No-No" and this could be reasons varying from a hectic work schedule to someone who has other commitments - eg children. For myself personally I would find it a huge turn-off to be with someone who sits down and plans their life right down to the last hour on their organiser and I would loose my patience in a second, for goodness sakes lighten up!! Its more exciting if your going out with someone and everythings not planned all the time.

this was nice in my early-mid 20s. now if you dont have a plan, go out w/someone else.

No one wants to date a stick in the mud.

This is what a lot of women tend to forget. Men love to be taken by a confident women. Not pushed, but invited strongly. There is a difference. I love it when a woman greets me with say only my shirt on and flashes me quickly. That is a strong invite!

hey! liek i'd want some predictable boring thing. what good is that??

Wow big turn on! Just the idea of a surprise visit from my boyfriend is hot. Getting caught with unshaven legs, less than stellar hair and no make-up after class or work hmmmmmmm. Spontaneous things are great because it shows a level of comfort and that your significant other has got you on their mind.

As I 've said before, there's a time and place for everything. If my man was spontaneous in the extreme, I might be a little concerned.