Definitely a turn off. Hopefully some people don't eventually get engaged to these kinds of people because they might just be late to their wedding.

it would be frustrating but its workable. i have a friend who is late to everything that her family started telling her that family events were 2 hours before they really were just so shed be on time

this one can drive me nuts, but it is something i can deal with if she is worth waiting for.

this would be a pet peeve for me. I do not appreciate someone who always keeps me waiting. I can understand once in awhile. all of the time says to me they do not have much consideration for others.

This is not a big deal. Once you start dating a person and if you figure out they are a person who is always late for stuff, you just give them an earlier time and it usually works out good. Or if it really annoys you, just start being late for stuff that is important to them as well and that usually nips it in the bud...if you love someone you probably shouldn't be too judgemental on this one...

Some people are busy, including myself, and lateness is understandable sometimes. But if you are going to be very late, call. That's one of the positives of having a cell phone. If she's always late and doesn't apologize, then you've got to wonder how much she cares.

A turn off to me. I expect people to be early or on time, and if you are running late then have the decency to call and let your significant other know.