it happens to the best of them . in fact all my sons friends have that opinion of each others girlfriends

This sucks, but she's probably providing something he needs (better than you do . . .or could do). You'll probably remain friends for a while but with all the changes he's about to undergo, you'll do well to stay in touch and be patient until the honeymoon is over. This has happened to a number of my old friends over the years. There is absolutely no predicting which relationship will last and which will end in bitter hatred. My closest friend from high school just married someone (2nd marriage for both) who finds me a less than acceptable social acquaintance (I know! Imagine that!) for John and we don't get together very often. He's gotta golf sometime, though.

this is only bad if she's ugly too. if she's hot and is really the wicked witch, the chances are good you could get her drunk and give it to her when your friend isn't around. although she'd be just thr type to tell him to spite him, so it might backfire and you'd lose a friend. but then again, what'd one more person not bothering you on a daily basis?

His problem. Stay out of it.

A friend of mine married someone I consider the Wicked Warlock of the West. I didn't think their marriage would last, but they've been married many years now and seem happy. Maybe she sees qualities in him I don't see, or perhaps the qualities about him I find objectionable are not objectionable to her.

I'm surprised at you minkeydude, I thought you'd be open-minded enough to accept this, tsk.