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You don't have much if you lack personality...

Some people have much more personality or charisma than others. That's just the way it is. Just be yourself and let your own personality come through. As long as you're honest about who you are that should be good enough for those that really know and care about you.

I might have a bit too much of this.

What is personality? He gets along with a wide variety of people. I think this is an open and subjective quality. Too much goes into defining personality. Each person will see it differently.

I'm giving this a three star because it depends on your definition of personality. When I first viewed the word 'personality,' since I am a deep and meaningful person, I thought of goodness, kindness, loving etc. But it seems that personality can also mean 'coolness' and the fact that life is never boring around them. Again, personality in my definition is worth a 5 star because goodness is more important than someone who can give you a bit of fun for now. But if personality means coolness, I give that a 2 star because that is not what anyone should be focusing on. What if the guy needs a bit of encouragement or is going through a tough time. That automatically means he is no good and just go onto the next guy who is cool. Well if any woman thinks like that, well she is a bit shallow and people wander why there is so much pain and divorce. It is because some woman do just go for a guy on what he can give her and if he can make her laugh and give her fun. But when their relationship becomes serious and well advanced, he just becomes a play boy and fornicates with other woman. Don't just go for what your flesh likes, go for what your spirit wants, and the spirit of a woman wants stability and a sweet, caring guy. But the flesh goes for how outgoing he is, how fun he is, his looks etc. UPDATE: Please don't get me wrong, I think a sense of humor is great in a woman, and a woman deserves to have fun, but that shouldn't be the basis to judge whether you find him attractive or not. Think about why you get attracted to a man. If you love him because of his body or what he can give you, or whether he can give you a good time, you are judging by the flesh which we are to disregard as far as the Bible is concerned. If we do make a decision based on the flesh, that woman will be happy and fulfilled for a moment, but either one of two things could happen. 1-Since the flesh is not faithful, if she sees a man better and more outgoing and fun then the one she is with, she will probably be tempted by him. If she is married, she will face a life or hardship and temptation because there will always be men more attractive. If you even so much as look at someone else who is married with a lustful desire for them, you have pretty well committed adultery in your heart. BUT if you are lead by your spirit, although you may find the man's physical features a turn on and attractive, put it this way, if you see two men. One of them is fat, has ugly looking hair, and has fairly average intelligence, but has a beautiful heart that really loves you and wants to provide for you, and really loves Jesus, as apposed to the second man who is tall and attractive, confident and has a presence of power, but has a woeful, loutish personality. Then the spiritual woman will go with the first man. Her reward will be that she will have a man who never hurts or abuses her, one that truly loves her and is sensative to her needs, one that listens to her and one that is empathetic to her and one that she can have a deep conversation with. He will never leave her and always be faithful to her and since she has judged spiritually, there will be no man as attractive as her husband and she will NEVER be tempted, not even in a mere thought or dream. She will be a very happy, blessed woman. Please don't get me wrong, I am not saying that it is wrong to find physical characteristics attractive because they are, I am saying that shouldn't be the basis to judge a man.

personality is the most important of all traits, i don't want a lump on the couch or a sadist. some one with humor, compassion, honesty ect. all fall in the personality catigory, out side package is nice but if he doesn't have a personality he becomes ugly.

Yes, I definitely like a man who knows who he is, appreciates his uniqueness, and who doesn't need me to be in constant agreement with him. And if he agreed with me all the time, I'd just know he was lying.

This hands down is the most important trait for any man to have. It goes hand in hand with humour for me personally. You could meet a real adonis and two hours of diatribe conversation later he looks ugly inside out.

Any man who does not have character would be somewhat akin to a robot.

I think personality is important. You can't be dull or boring.

We all love personality, but it can be made up for in other ways like kindness and devotion.

A real man definitely has personality because I don't want to spend time with someone who is boring and has no ideas or opinions.