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I believe I am, therefore I are...or something like that. Confidence is not a catch phrase or a style. It's a vibe. Even through RIA I can sense the asses from the assured.

Must be very big cause I have seen some silly looking dudes with some pretty hot women.

Confidence is key. If they can walk over you they will.

As long as they don't cross the line into being completely ego-driven, than a healthy level of confidence can be quite attractive in a man.

Some say I have too much confidence.

Absolutely! Confidence comes from experience. Just don't be overconfident or arrogant.

Just don't overdue it.

I can see why women want this because it gives them a sense of security. But again, this is a shallow way to measure a man. For the name of this list, I don't think the name 'A real man is/has' is a very nice name for men (is a bit offensive.) Because this implies that if a man doesn't have this or that or if he is not intelligent or has a good car, he is not a real man. How judgemental and shallow can you get. I'm sure anyone would hate it if someone judged them like that. A better name would be 'What do you find attractive in a man/mate.' Although confidence is a good thing, really this is neither good or bad and if the confident person is bad, then they will use their confidence to perform evil deeds. Maybe I am a bit offended by the name of this list because I've met a lot of women who judge a man on thier body or level of confidence or intelligence and they are very worldly, mean people. I'm only calling those women worldly and mean if they would hurt and dump a man just because he doesn't have those physical characteristics, but is a real gentle man and arn't interested in his heart. Plus I am a bit shy myself and I've resented it when woman just go for a man (although they show off and are bad) just because he is confident or is good in bed. Then these women wander why their husbands end up committing adultery on them. Because if the women had of chosen right and were led by their hearts, they would make better choices and choose a man who although they may not be all vivacious, at least they will be faithful and do the right thing by them.