Do you mean strong, powerful and capable of laying a smackdown, if the case need be, over confidence, tons of guns, and rifles, or a house with a burgular alarm, infrared dectators, and a panic room?

Security or secured? For some people I assume the latter to be the sad truth.

I'm not sure what this question is asking. I can guarantee that my family and those that I care about feel safe and secure with me.

Men are physically stronger and women (at least in my experiences) do like to feel secure. Like anything else, too secure isn't good.

This is a bit more important because a man is obligated to protect his wife. But again, if this guy is in a wheel chair or handicapped, he can't offer a lot of protection and no woman should be shameful and ungodly enough not to go out with him because he is handicapped and can't really protect her.