 | Randyman (103)
04/16/2005 | There is a differance between being popular and being well liked or well thought of. Popularity is a fickle thing and can change at a moments notice, depending on someones whim, or your willingness to compromise yourself for the sake of popularity. Being well liked, well loved or well thought of carries no such baggage and comes from the heart and is usually the result of someone having a good understanding of who you really are.
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 | dpostoskie (7)
04/15/2005 | Depends on 'why' you are popular. Good man with morals that treats others with respect, damn right! A-hole who lies and paints a BS picture of himself while stomping on others, punk.
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 | Gentle Jude (23)
03/06/2005 |  I can see why a woman would want this because my flesh finds popularity attractive too, but I am going to be led by the Spirit and go for the heart of a woman. Put it this way, some woman need to watch the movie Shall Hall (how ever you spell it.) It was about this man who went out with women just because of their looks and popularity. But something happened to him (got hypnotised I think) and he began so see women's inner beauty. Ie he would see the really fat, ugly women as being beautiful and the pretty women as being ugly. But he didn't know he was under this spell. So he was dating this woman who he thought was beautiful but when the spell warn off, he saw that beautiful woman's physical body (she was all fat.) Then he started not to like her and she was hurt. But in the end, he really learnt something from that experience and ended up loving that woman for who she was, not because of ANY physical characteristic. That is the way I judge a woman (for her inner beauty.) That's what women should be like too. Sure it is good to be physically attractive and well presented, but that should be no basis to determine whether he is a 'Real Man.'
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