Depends on if there is love left. But I rated it five because in those made for t.v. movies when someone wants a divorce out of the blue, it looks like a pretty painful thing lol. It is like getting dumped, in public and someone else judging who gets to keep the stuff you love. OUCH

It is very painful, however, sometimes it just can't be helped.  Everything happens for a reason.  It is hard though, to not have that control over your own life.

 My first wife...I sent my suit out to the cleaners and it came back with someone else in it.

My 2nd wife...Wanted sex all the time, morning, noon and night-just not with me! 

its painful to have an important and meaniful part of your life come to an end. it can also bring a sense of relief and renewal to your self.