"Gee, the package says 365 count, but i have not bought a new box since January!"

This is another big lie thats out there in the new age of sexual politics in my opinion. Im not proud of it but I speak form my own experience and unless things have changed drastically in the last 5 years or so(and i dont believe it has at all) this usually is not a deal breaker. In fact, I dont remember EVER being turned away by a woman for not having a condom. They might have asked, but that was as far as it ever went. This is another area where people simply misrepresent themselves to save face in a society where we are Supposed to be being more aware of spreading STD's. Being a musician in the late 80's early 90's when aids was on everybodies mind, I unfortunately had first hand experience at the lack of dicipline in this area. We all spoke of it at parties and gatherings but it just was not being done. People dont want to admit to or recognize the human sex drive as the undeniable force/instinct it is. Its very hard to turn that machine off. An usually the lack of protection does not do so. If you really have been good about this, consider your self a rock, but in reality, I'm slow to believe that most people are really doing this like they should, and just cannot find it in myself to judge them for it either. As usual, my outlook is that of a realist who just knows people pretty well. If you want to believe that all those folks who ontracted and STD are low lives and irresponsible scumbags go ahead, but I dont see it that way. I lived in fear for years after those days knowing that I was foolish. Im very glad to be married for many reasons including this one.

Most people today will NOT,no matter how attracted they are to one another,have unprotected sex unless it's with a steady,monogamous partner.If they DON'T demand a condom,maybe YOU should be afraid....

The baby's crying. The baby needs to be fed. The baby's crying. The baby needs diapers. The baby's crying...kind of sucks the fun out of the whole thing. To me anyways.

I figured this would be higher up on the list. I guess people still don't care about their health. This would definately be a deal-breaker for me.

. . .but then you discover if you actually have some SERIOUS game or not. . .