Biggest turn off, right there.

If you have to do this, she probably doesn't want to in the first place, and you don't deserve to get laid. UPDATE: Thanks, Minkey Dude, but I had to delete it. I have to start remembering, that when it's late, and I've been drinking, I can't be so open. This is kind of my anonymous sanctuary, and if I keep writing experiences like that, I fear somebody will recognize me. I guess that could be good and bad, but mostly bad. Thanks though. And by the way, I can't leave or reply to messages.

One should always take his time and ensure the ladys comfort and pleasure.

Well, yeah, and you could also be accused of rape. Which would certainly put a damper on things.