With some women, this will work like a charm.  Unfortunately they're not usually the kind of women for a "give and take" relationship.

Not really, a girl knows the implication if she feels that you are trying to buy her, she may resent the implication. People are not that naive, they know if a guy is spending money, it usually implies, (you owe him something).

"Okay honey we will take the city bus, and eat at McDonalds afterwards"!

I think this is an obvious strategy in most instances, and many times, it does work. But many of us may want a more serious relationship: in that case, a woman who really cares about you will not want you to spend a lot of money on her, she's the one who's watching out for you.

I would spend a lot of money on a dress for her.... my sheets.

First, you're asking for trouble with this one from most women. They'll just start expecting you to lavish money/gifts on them from there on out.

I, personally, can't stand for someone to go all out and spend lots of money on me. I never grew up with money and being able to have whatever I want and I start feeling guilty whenever someone starts spending on me. I don't see the purpose in it...

A surefire way to attract "Gold diggers".I used to have a really beat up car,and guys would say "don't you want a nice ride to attract the chicks?",I'd tell them,"Nah.This car is great.It weeds out all the women who don't want me for ME."

This is a dumb way to go. People should only spend what they can afford to. If you start out extravagant, they will expect more of it in the future.

This is a guys classic way of wanting something in return. There are some guys out there who are genuine and don't want anything in return, but the majority of them who spend excessive amounts of money on a date- nah, honestly ladies you need to watch out. Sometimes its nice to go halves with them as this shows some independence and your not going to be bought easily.

Psst... women know at first sight whether or not you'll be getting any.

This is much like a battle in the days of the Civil War for instance. You never blunder in with your full force. You send out skirmishers to test the enemy's resolve and preparedness. Sometimes flankers are in order.

It's only when you have a full reconnaissance and good overview of the situation, do you commit a major force! Always remember, my dear youngsters, this particular war is always fraught with risk!