Gambling (in all states)
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This is a really tough issue for me as well, but this one for a more personal reason. My mom got really addicted to gambling when I was around 15 or so, and took out loans and stuff and went through I'm thinking about ten thousand dollars at a casino that was in Delaware, not far from where she worked. One day she said she was about to kill herself because of all of the money she had gone through, but instead she checked herself into a psychiatric facility nearby. The hardest part for me at that point was that I was also in residential treatment for depression, and I can remember having a family session over the phone, where my counselor called my mom's counselor and we were to have an over the phone session, with my dad being where my mom was, since it was closer than where I was. Well, all I can remember is, that was really scary, before I had come in for the session they had already been talking about it and my dad got up and left, and went home. So it was really hard for me to deal with knowing that my mom was alone and in a bad place mentally, and I was alone and couldn't really talk to anyone.
I tell that story just because it is part of the reason that I can't completely 100% support gambling everywhere. I spent a lot of years keeping secrets, when I was a kid I kept quiet when I found my dad's beer cans, when he was supposedly not drinking, and then when I was older, I had to keep secrets about my mom's gambling--be it lottery tickets or slot machines. Had there not been a casino less than an hour from where we lived, chances are, a lot of that pain would have been prevented. Not to say she wouldn't have bought lottery tickets, but slot machines are a lot more dangerous than lottery tickets, as far as losing money goes, since you can put X amount of money in at a time and just keep hitting a button.
All that being said, it is now about 10 years later, since a lot of that stuff happened. My dad occasionally takes my mom to a casino, gives her a set amount of money, and that way, she gets to have fun and play the slots, but not go overboard. In my opinion, I do think she still has a bit of a gambling problem, but it's definitely not as bad as before, because she doesn't have access to it nearby, most likely.
So while I do think that people should be able to go to a casino if they want to, but it is a huge responsibility, it's like alcohol, it can be addictive and dangerous. So when it comes down to it, I guess I'd say that it should be limited to certain areas, not near areas where people work or live, it's just too risky. In the middle of a city, like Atlantic City, in New Jersey or a reservation--it's fine, but not near a suburban area where a lot of families live.
Now, for lotteries, I feel differently... I think they are fairly safe. Not that someone couldn't buy say 100 scratch-offs, but face it, that's not as easy to do as putting a 100$ bill in a lit up slot machine, and end up putting more money in 5-10 minutes later. But you definitely still have to be responsible with lottery tickets as well.