Abortions
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This one for me, I am very passionate about. I am very pro-life, and like a lot of other things, not for religious reasons, but because I do believe that from the moment of conception that there is a living organism growing, which is a baby. I feel that unless the mother is in danger of dying or having severe health consequences that the goal should be to get that baby to at least the minimum time at which they can be delivered either prematurely, and survive or taken to term.
The reason I feel so strongly is, a lot of time abortion is done out of convenience or selfishness. I think I read that maybe 1% or so are done to save the life of the mother. It's just, there are so many people who want healthy babies, who can't have them, and to just throw away a human life because you don't want to put on the 10-40 pounds of baby weight is really dehumanizing. Not to say that's the only reason a woman would abort, but I have heard of those cases before, and that is the height of selfishness, that along with alcohol and drug use while pregnant. Simply put, the best case is to put the baby up for adoption if you can't or don't want to take care of it.
My biggest issues with it right now though are: (1) Abortion as birth control; that should not even be allowed, I would sooner support sterilization... planned parenthood, who provides abortions also provides birth control, so there, you don't even have to buy condoms. (2) The fact that clinics, such as Planned Parenthood are able to perform abortions to underage girls, without parental notice or consent, yet you can't give them an aspirin at school without parental consent. Let's just say, if I had a daughter and I found out someone performed this procedure on her without my knowledge I would be finding a lawyer and finding out if there were any legal things we could get them on.
(3) The fact that people talk about babies like they are some kind of curse, or negative "thing", or a "punishment".
All that being said, those are my opinions, I know a lot of people don't agree with me, and that's fine, don't get me wrong, I'm not a militant pro-lifer, I am simply a person who values human life so much, despite it's imperfections.
The thing is, I can't completely say that I think it should be banned, because I am afraid that if it was, that many people would resort to back alley, coat hanger abortions, and that is even more terrifying, again, I don't want to see mother or baby dead, and in these cases, two lives might be lost.
I don't consider myself pro-choice, because when I hear people talk about pro-"choice", it always seems to be more about encouraging abortion over keeping the baby, carrying it for the 8.5-9 months and then putting it up for adoption.
The thing I am most horrified about is partial birth and late term abortion, especially when the babies end up miraculously surviving and they are denied treatment. That is truly a waste of a human life.
Like I said, respect all opinions, and when it comes down to it, I don't claim to try to tell someone else what to do with their body. I just know that if I were to be in this situation that if I chose to get rid of my baby I could not live with myself, and I'm sure that a lot of abortion survivors end up with a lot of mental health problems, if not after wards, later on--especially if they try to have a baby later on only to find they can no longer conceive.